Don’t Be Guilty Of Judging A Person By Their Past

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Tragedy is that our attention centers on what people are not, rather than on what they are and who they may become.

When did you last think, “What an amateur, who would pay him?” or “Someone needs to take her aside and tell her that she’s never gonna make it.” or “What a _________ person.” (insert lazy, stupid, hurtful, annoying, lousy, or similar descriptive.)
I often wonder what folks who met me at the beginning of my professional career might think if they ran into me today. “Who would hire her? She was okay, but wouldn’t come to mind as an expert or transformational.”

No One Starts At the Top

We all start in the same place. The truth is, no one begins at the top. I don’t know anyone who hasn’t taken a wrong turn, screwed up, apologized, and had to suck up their bruised ego to try again or muzzle the voice tempting them to quit.
People who change the world have awkward beginnings. No matter who I meet or where they are in their journey today, I remind myself how people who knew me when might look at me now. Will they give me fresh consideration or judge me by what they saw 10, 20, 30, or 40 years ago?

Judging By the Past Can Backfire 

  • David didn’t begin as a king.
  • Moses fled.
  • Joseph didn’t stay in the pit or prison.
  • Peter denied Christ.
  • Saul became Paul.
Give grace and remember where you started. And, if you’re not where you want to be today, be comforted with the simple truth that this isn’t judgment day.
Offer encouragement to everyone.
Today’s shepherd may be tomorrow’s king.

If you're trying to show off for people at the top, forget it. They will look down on you anyhow. And if you're trying to show off for people at the bottom, forget it. They will only envy you. Status will get you nowhere. Only an open heart will allow you to float equally between everyone.

Mitch Albom, "Tuesdays With Morrie" Tweet

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Lynn Baber

Lynn Baber

Lynn Baber is a best-selling Christian author, speaker, and coach promoting personal, intimate relationship with Jesus Christ. She provides support, resources, and encouragement to kingdom-minded people.

Lynn Baber

Lynn Baber

Lynn Baber is a best-selling Christian author, speaker, and coach who helps people accomplish God's unique purpose for them and advance His kingdom on earth. She's also a retired World and National Champion horse trainer and breeder.

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